Independent email hosting

Email that actually belongs to you.

A real mailbox with calendar, contacts and file storage built in — not a free account that reads your mail to sell you things. Pick a personal address at @mailtoyou.org, or run your own domain.

No ads. No tracking. No AI trained on your inbox. Just a mailbox that works.

2×
the storage, for less
Unlimited
aliases & forwarders
+folder
self-filing addresses
Clean IPs
SPF, DKIM & DMARC aligned
30 days
money back, no drama

What's included

More than an inbox

Every plan — personal or domain — comes with the whole suite. There is no "pro tier" holding your calendar hostage.

Room to actually send

600 emails an hour on a domain plan, 200 on a personal mailbox. Enough for client updates, invoice runs and busy days without ever hitting a wall.

Worth checking before you buy elsewhere: some popular flat-rate hosts cap their entry plans at 20–100 messages a day. That’s fine until the day it isn’t.

Works with every app

IMAP, POP3 and SMTP, so Apple Mail, Thunderbird, Gmail's app or anything else just works. ActiveSync and Exchange Web Services for Outlook users.

Calendar & contacts

Full CalDAV and CardDAV syncing across your phone, laptop and the web. Share calendars, manage tasks, keep everything in one place.

Cloud file storage

Your storage isn't just for mail. Upload files, share them with a link, and edit documents and spreadsheets online with OnlyOffice.

Filtering you actually control

Enterprise SpamExperts filtering, free on every plan — not an upsell, not a higher tier. Mail passes through dedicated filtering servers before it reaches you, stopping spam, viruses, phishing and malware.

The difference is you decide how aggressive it is. Crank it up if your inbox is under siege, or dial it back if you’d rather see everything and judge for yourself. Nothing is silently deleted — anything held goes to a quarantine you can review and release, so you never quietly lose a real email the way over-zealous filters make you.

Self-filing addresses

Hand out you+shopping@ or you+bank@ and mail addressed that way files itself into a matching folder automatically — the folder is created for you the first time it’s used. Endless throwaway addresses, sorted before you even open your inbox.

2FA and app passwords

Protect your account with TOTP two-factor auth, then generate separate app passwords for each mail client you connect.

Your mail actually arrives

Clean sending IPs, on none of the major blocklists. Every message is signed with DKIM and aligned with SPF and DMARC, so receivers can verify it’s genuinely you.

The reason it stays that way is unglamorous: we don’t allow bulk mail, outbound passes through filtering relays, and we act on complaints fast. One customer’s spam run is everyone else’s inbox folder — so we don’t permit it.

Don’t take our word for it — check our IPs yourself.

Resilient by design

We run our own backups against hardware failure — though your data remains your responsibility, so keep your own archive of anything critical. Moving in? Our migration wizard copies your old mailbox over IMAP.

Payment & privacy

Pay with a card, or don't tell us who you are

We take Stripe for cards and Apple / Google Pay, and we take cryptocurrency. Signing up needs an email address to reach you at and a payment — that's the whole list.

No legal name. No phone number. No SMS verification, no ID upload, no "please confirm your identity" email three weeks later. If you'd rather we knew as little about you as possible, pay in crypto and use a throwaway contact address — that's a completely normal way to buy from us, and it won't get your account flagged.

Card payments are processed by Stripe and we never see or store your card number. Crypto payments are handled by our payment processor at checkout.

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  • Cards via StripeVisa, Mastercard, Amex, Apple Pay and Google Pay. Your card details never touch our servers.
  • Cryptocurrency acceptedBitcoin, Monero and other major coins at checkout. No card, no bank, no paper trail on our side.
  • No phone number, everWe will never ask for an SMS code or a mobile number. Two-factor auth uses a TOTP app instead.
  • A pseudonym is fineCall yourself whatever you like on the account. We only need a working address to send renewal notices to.
  • We don't sell or share itNo data brokers, no ad networks, no analytics vendors getting a copy of your account details.

Switching over

Keep your old address working

You don't have to flip a switch and hope. Move your mail across, keep pulling from your old account, and forward whatever you like — all three work together.

Bring your old mail with you

The migration wizard logs into your current provider over IMAP and copies everything across — every folder, every message, structure intact. Works with Gmail, Outlook, Yahoo, iCloud, Fastmail or any standard IMAP host. Enter your old server details, click go, walk away.

Keep fetching from the old inbox

Not ready to tell everyone your new address? Fetch Mail checks your old accounts on a schedule and pulls new messages straight into MailToYou. One inbox, both addresses. Add your old SMTP details and you can reply as the old address from our webmail too.

Forward anything, anywhere

Unlimited forwarders and aliases on every plan. Send a copy to a colleague, route billing@ to whoever handles invoices, or set a catch-all so nothing addressed to your domain ever bounces. Send-as works from webmail, so replies go out from the right address.

Which one do you actually want?

Migration is a one-time copy — use it when you're moving in and want your history here. Fetch is ongoing — use it while you're still receiving mail at an old address you haven't retired yet. Forwarding sends mail back out to another address — use it to route mail to other people, or onward to another inbox.

Most people switching from Gmail run a migration first, then leave fetch enabled for a few months while they update their accounts. Stuck? Ask us and we'll tell you which to use — we'd rather spend ten minutes on it than have you lose mail.

Pricing

Pay once a year. That's it.

No per-seat billing, no surprise renewals at triple the rate. Choose a personal address on our domain, or bring your own.

One mailbox at you@mailtoyou.org. No domain to buy, nothing to configure — pick a name and start using it.

Lite
10 GB
$9/ year

Less than a dollar a month

  • One mailbox @mailtoyou.org
  • 10 GB for mail and files
  • Webmail, calendar & contacts
  • IMAP / POP3 / SMTP + ActiveSync
  • SpamExperts premium spam filtering — free
  • 2FA & app passwords
  • +folder self-filing addresses
  • File sharing & online document editing
  • Free mailbox migration from your old host
  • 200 sent emails/hour
Choose Lite or pay with crypto
Max
100 GB
$25/ year

For inbox hoarders

  • One mailbox @mailtoyou.org
  • 100 GB for mail and files
  • Everything in Plus
  • Priority support queue
  • Keep a decade of mail without pruning
  • SpamExperts premium spam filtering — free
  • +folder self-filing addresses
  • Free mailbox migration from your old host
  • 200 sent emails/hour
Choose Max or pay with crypto

Outgrow it? Upgrade any time. Move up a tier whenever you like — we go all the way to 10 TB — and you only pay the difference. Nothing to migrate; your address and mail stay exactly as they are.

Personal plans are for personal and everyday use. Need to send from your own brand, or add mailboxes for a team? See domain plans →

Same storage. Substantially less money.

Compare like for like — same storage, both billed annually — and the gap widens the more you need.

StorageOur priceTypical elsewhereYou keep
50 GB$64$79$15/yr
100 GB$74$100$26/yr
200 GB$95$150$55/yr
400 GB$145$250$105/yr

Compared against commonly advertised annual rates for independent email hosts, checked August 2026. We’re not naming anyone — go and check, then hold us to it.

One thing we'd rather say up front

We don't do bulk or marketing email. Not newsletters, not campaigns, not "but it's double opt-in". MailToYou is built for real personal and business correspondence, plus light transactional mail like signup confirmations and password resets.

That isn't us being difficult — it's how the inbox stays clean and our sending reputation stays good for everyone on the platform. If you need to send campaigns, use a dedicated provider like Mailchimp or Postmark alongside us. Read the full sending policy →

Why bother paying

Free email isn't free

If you aren't paying for your inbox, your inbox is the product. We'd rather just charge you a few dollars and leave your mail alone.

Your mail is yours. We don't scan it to build an advertising profile, we don't feed it to a recommendation engine, and we don't train AI models on it. Our entire business model is that you pay us a small amount each year and we run a good mail server.

Start from $9/year
  • An address that's actually yoursMove providers whenever you want. With your own domain, your address never changes again.
  • Nothing reading over your shoulderNo ad profiling, no inbox scanning, no AI summaries you didn't ask for.
  • Storage that does double dutyYour gigabytes hold files as well as mail — share links, edit docs online, keep it all together.
  • Support from people who run mail serversTickets answered by humans who understand SPF records — not a chatbot reading a script.
  • Leave whenever you likeStandard IMAP means your mail is portable by definition. No lock-in, no export fee, no hostage-taking.

Questions

The things people ask

What's the difference between a personal plan and a domain plan?

A personal plan gives you one mailbox at our domain — yourname@mailtoyou.org. Nothing to buy, nothing to set up. It's for people who just want a good private inbox.

A domain plan lets you use an address at your own domain, like you@yourbusiness.com, with unlimited mailboxes for your family or team. You'll need to own the domain and point a couple of DNS records at us — we'll walk you through it.

How much mail can I actually send?

600 emails per hour on a domain plan — that’s up to 14,400 a day — and 200 an hour on a personal mailbox. Limits count mail to recipients outside your own domain.

That is a lot more headroom than it sounds. Some well-known flat-rate hosts cap their entry plans at 20 or 100 messages a day, which catches people out the first time they send a client update or a batch of invoices. We’d rather you never think about it.

Running a legitimate business that genuinely needs more? Ask us — we review increases case by case once an account has a little history. What we won’t do is raise it for bulk or marketing mail, which isn’t allowed on any plan.

Can I send marketing emails or newsletters?

No. We don't allow bulk or marketing mail of any kind, even if your list is fully opt-in. MailToYou is for genuine personal and business correspondence plus light transactional mail — signup confirmations, password resets, receipts.

Sending limits are 600 emails per hour per domain to outside recipients. If you're a legitimate sender bumping into that ceiling, open a ticket once your account has a little history and we'll review an increase case by case.

Do you keep backups of my mail?

We run our own backups to protect against hardware and infrastructure failure, and we'll always do our best to recover your data if something goes wrong on our side.

That said, please be clear on this: your data is your responsibility. Our backups are a safety net for our infrastructure — they are not a personal archiving service, and we can't guarantee recovery of individual messages you delete. If you have mail you genuinely cannot afford to lose, keep your own copy. Because we use standard IMAP, any mail client can download a full local archive.

What are the "+" addresses?

Add a + and any word to your address and it still reaches you — but it arrives pre-sorted. Give a shop you+shopping@mailtoyou.org and their mail lands in a shopping folder, created automatically the first time it’s used.

Two things this buys you. Your inbox sorts itself without a single filter rule. And because each sender gets its own address, you can see exactly who leaked or sold your details — then kill that one address and keep the rest.

It works on every plan, on your own domain too, and there’s no limit on how many you use. Nothing to set up: just start handing them out.

Will my mail actually reach people’s inboxes?

That’s the whole game, and most of it comes down to reputation. Our sending IPs are clean — not listed on Spamhaus, SpamCop, Barracuda or the other major blocklists — and every message is DKIM-signed with SPF and DMARC alignment, so receiving servers can confirm it genuinely came from you.

Keeping a clean reputation is mostly about what we refuse to carry. We don’t allow bulk or marketing mail on any plan, outbound mail passes through filtering relays that catch spam and viruses leaving the network, and we move quickly on complaints and compromised accounts. Shared infrastructure means one bad sender would land everyone in spam folders — so we don’t let it happen.

You don’t have to take our word for any of this — run our sending IPs through an independent blacklist and reputation check yourself.

On a domain plan we’ll also check your DNS records for you before you switch. Misconfigured SPF or DKIM is the single most common reason legitimate mail gets junked, and it takes us two minutes to spot.

What spam filtering do you use — and can I control it?

SpamExperts, the enterprise commercial filter, included free on every plan. Plenty of hosts charge extra for this or reserve it for business tiers; we don’t.

You control how aggressive it is — and that matters more than people realise. Filters tuned too tight quietly swallow invoices, order confirmations and job offers, and you never know it happened. Set yours as strict or as permissive as you like.

Nothing is deleted without you seeing it. Anything held lands in a quarantine you can review and release yourself, so a false positive costs you a click, not a lost customer. Outbound mail is filtered too, which keeps our sending reputation clean for everyone.

Can I move my existing mail across?

Yes. The migration wizard connects to your current provider over IMAP and copies everything — folders and all — into your new mailbox. It works with Gmail, Outlook, Yahoo, iCloud and any standard IMAP host. It's included free on Plus, Max and all domain plans.

Which apps can I use?

All of them, essentially. We support IMAP, POP3 and SMTP, so Apple Mail, Thunderbird, K-9, Outlook and the Gmail app all work. For Outlook and Apple Mail there's ActiveSync and Exchange Web Services for proper push mail, calendar and contact sync. Calendars and contacts also sync over CalDAV and CardDAV.

Domain plans include a free eM Client licence for up to three Windows or Mac machines.

What’s the difference between a primary domain and a domain alias?

A primary domain is a domain with its own mailboxes — its own users, its own storage, its own DKIM signing key. That’s the number your plan caps.

A domain alias is a second domain that delivers into an existing domain’s mailboxes. If you run acme.com and also own acme.co.uk and acme.net, point them at your primary domain as aliases and mail to you@acme.co.uk lands in the same inbox as you@acme.com. No extra mailboxes, nothing to manage twice.

Domain aliases are unlimited on every plan. Most people only need one primary domain and a handful of aliases — so our Starter plan covers far more domains than the “2” suggests.

What does "unlimited mailboxes" really mean?

Exactly what it says: on a domain plan you can create as many mailboxes and as many aliases or forwarders as you want. What's capped is the number of separate domains you host with us (2 on Starter, up to 10 on Scale) and your total storage, which is pooled across everything.

So fifty mailboxes on one domain is completely fine — they just share the plan's storage between them.

How can I pay, and how anonymous can I be?

We accept cards through Stripe (including Apple Pay and Google Pay) and we accept cryptocurrency. To open an account we need a contact email address and a payment — no legal name, no phone number, no ID.

If privacy is the point, pay in crypto and sign up with a throwaway contact address. That's a perfectly ordinary way to buy from us. Do note we're a mail host, not a shield: we still act on abuse reports and respond to valid legal process, and the no-bulk-mail rule applies to everyone regardless of how they paid.

What if I need more space later?

Upgrade whenever you like. Tell us the tier you want and we’ll move you up — you pay only the difference for the time left on your term. Your address, mail, folders and settings all stay exactly as they are; nothing to migrate, no downtime.

The published plans stop at 200 GB, but we go well beyond — up to 10 TB. Need something in between, or bigger? Just ask and we’ll quote it.

What if I don't like it?

Tell us within 30 days of your first payment and we'll refund it in full. No exit interview, no retention offer, no dark patterns. Renewals aren't refundable, so cancel before your renewal date if you're moving on.

Ready for an inbox that leaves you alone?

Nine dollars a year for a private mailbox with calendar, contacts and file storage. Thirty-day refund if it isn't for you.